In a bit of a pickle and wondering if anyone can provide some advice.
My mother in law, based in Wuhan, has schizophrenia. Several times now my wife has been able to coordinate between aunties to get her treated and on meds, once she’s on meds things are fine. But, as I learned is common with schizophrenia, they stop taking their meds because now they are fine and think they don’t need it anymore, and side effects of the meds are no fun. Then it’s a huge struggle getting them back on as their paranoia increases. All my MIL sisters hate her now, my wife hired caretakers and tried to set her up with guys, and the MIL just drives them all away.
One part of the problem is the hospital system seems inadequate. The doctor gives my wife literally a minute to ask questions and hangs up when her mom is in for an appointment. There’s no online patient portal to send doctors a message, you can’t call the front desk and ask to speak with a doctor. it’s crazy how difficult it is to actually just be able to speak to someone helpful without rushing you off. The MIL has schizophrenia and it’s documented in her chart, she is unreliable. There also seem to be no long term care places to stay, all long term care places reject patients with mental disorders.
Now last visit the doctor admitted her meds are wrong and she wants the MIL to stay a few days and monitor her while starting them back up. Hangs up. Ok. Next time MIL answers, oh they supposedly sent her away because no beds are available, and she didn’t even write any antipsychotic prescription for pills she has already previously had. Feels like it’s a lie by her MIL, but we can’t know since wife can’t ever talk to doctor without MIL in the room. It’s incredibly frustrating.
Anyone have any advice on what to do? We do plan to go to China but we can’t just pause our life here at the drop of a hat. The earliest we can go is April next year.