My( 24F) fiance (24M) will not stop farting

I need advice. As the title states my(24F) fiancé (24M), literally will not stop farting. He farts non stop. Sometimes he doesn't even realize he's farting until he's mid fart. It's disgusting honestly. I understand that it's a normal bodily function but this is non fucking stop. I've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't care! He thinks it's hilarious! It's so bad that i literally lose my appetite because he will fart while I'm eating. He will purposely turn his ass towards me just to fart. I'm at my wits end. It's disgusting. And it's smells so fucking bad. Like something crawled up there and died. And it's fucking loud! Loud enough to wake him up from sleep and loud enough that our cats run away! There was a time when my sister and I were outside the house, near where the bedroom was, and I kid you fucking not we heard him fart so loud. I wish I was fucking joking. He leaves for the military next month and as much as I want to be sad about it, I'm not! I'm so fucking excited for him to be gone so that I won't have to deal with his ass. I love him. I truly do. But this is disgusting. I just need advice honestly. I've brought up seeing a doctor but he refuses. Has anyone dealt with anything like this before???

TLDR: my fiancee farts so much and it's driving me insane

I got offered a job I've wanted for a really long time in another city. I was really excited when I told him but instead of being happy for me, he got upset. Apparently he'd been planning to propose sometime in the next few months and now he feels like I'm choosing a job over him.

The thing is, I've been waiting for him to propose for years. Every time we talked about marriage, he never really knew when he'd be ready. And now, right when something big happens for me, he suddenly has a timeline?

I don't want to lose him. I genuinely thought we'd figure out our future together and I'd love to find a way to make both things work. But I also don't want to give up an opportunity I've worked so hard for just because he says he was about to propose.

Do I try to work out a plan with him or take the job and see what happens?

This morning me and my boyfriend woke up and we had sex. During this time he went on his phone so i stopped doing what i was doing. The same happened last night, went on his phone in the middle of sex and was checking his tiktok. Am i in the wrong for being upset about this because to me it seems almost disrespectful.

didn’t feel comfortable posting this on my main.

I’ve told him so many times not to touch me when I’m in the middle of something (I’m autistic and have sensory issues). Well, my breaking point was when he came up behind me while I was washing dishes and grabbed my boob. I repeatedly told him to stop, but he wouldn’t, so I slammed a dish as hard as I could against the sink and broke it. It startled him and pushed him away, and I screamed that if he ever did that again, we were done. Then I left all the dishes behind.

He apologized and swore he wouldn’t do it again. But my mood was fucked, so I went to sleep and figured I’d do the dishes in the morning. Except they were already done.

It’s been weeks now, and things have gone back to normal, but he hasn’t touched me at all. Even when he comes home, he says hi and asks how my day was, etc., but no kisses or even a tap on the shoulder. I feel like my reaction was harsh. I did apologize, but he said I wasn’t in the wrong and that he just needs to detach.

My husband isn’t a monster. He’s okay for the most part, but I think he’s been fixated on me for too long. Now he’s become quite sensitive and has been shutting down, and I know he could stay like this indefinitely if I don’t do something about it.

28M here. Been straight most of my life but due to loneliness and never having women like me that way, I’ve decided to move towards men and trans.

Success rate is ridiculously higher with boys (over 18) and trans. Here’s the thing, idk why but I have this fantasy I’ve been wanting to live out for a few years now and I don’t know why.

I look like a man obviously but I wanna go to a city I don’t live in, do makeup, wear a long wig, wear a cute outfit with a purse, high heels and lots of lip stick and just walk around the city like a bad bitch.

I wish I was trolling but I really find this type of fantasy empowering. I wanna walk down the street unapologetically being a bad bitch and have guys wish they could smash me but all I do is say "nuh uhh ;) "

Again, this ain’t a troll post I really wanna do this but idk where it’s coming from

my best friend (f19) since sophomore year and I (f19) both enjoy smoking weed. In high school, we lived near each other and it was easy for us to smoke A LOT bc it was one of our only pastimes.

Since entering college, I’ve had to lessen my use because of anxiety and brain fog. I only smoke on special occasions or when I wanna relax (about once a week?) but she still smokes a good amount. I don’t know exactly how much but it’s more than I do and I feel like it’s affecting her ability to socialize.

I don’t know if I’m being a bad friend but it feels like she’s slower and takes a while to process things when i talk to her. She used to be quick-witted but now it feels like it’s hard to joke around her and she’s more awkward. Idk if I just need to accept her or tell her that it’s affecting her social skills. And if I do tell her, how do I say that without being a bad friend ?? It makes me sad bc she’s like family to me

Im a 39 year old trans woman. (Three years post transition)

I am a home renovator

I have psoriatic arthritis which is well medicated but getting harder to treat

My job is getting harder to do because of my disease.

I live in the country (moving isn't an option)

My basic necessities are covered no matter what but nothing extra

What do I do? What can I pivot too? I feel lost in this decision. Im stuck on a mental block.

Hello. In a predicament. Found this in my teenager’s car. Empty and still somewhat maintains shape, so I know it’s recent. She is 16 turning 17 in less than a week. She’s been with her boyfriend since the start of this year. I went to my wife first and we spoke about it, we are gonna speak to her. Probably time for a birth control appointment too (we’ve had sex talks, birth control talks, etc many times prior.) Obviously in my head I want to chase the boyfriend down the street lol. I’m also a little upset they somehow got past me, I’ve been watching them like a hawk. I know that’s a little unrealistic though to think it can be stopped. So.. Apart from the chat we’re going to have: where do we go from here? What rules or boundaries need to be set now (or altered?) We already had a few to begin with.

I accidentally found out my mom is planning a surprise family dinner for my birthday. I was honestly really excited about it and just planned to pretend I knew nothing. But then my best friend told me my boyfriend is ALSO planning a surprise for me. On the exact same evening.

And both of them have been telling everyone to keep their plans a secret, so now I know about both surprises and have absolutely no idea what to do. I obviously can't be in two places at once, and I really don't wanna hurt either of their feelings. They're both trying to do something sweet for me, which somehow makes this even more stressful lol.

Do I just admit I know about everything and ruin the surprises or try to get one of them to change the date without making it obvious?

I (19F) recently broke up with my boyfriend (22M) (let's call him J) after three months. I started uni this year and my now ex-boyfriend graduated but is also doing another course whilst working. Our relationship started off fast and rushed; the day he asked me to be his girlfriend, he also introduced me to his mom, and a lot has happened in between that made me feel like he was the one.

In the second month, things started to slow down and he took hours to respond. He has always been a slow responder and made me aware of it. I tried to understand because he was working, and if he wasn't working, he attended class. I tried pulling away in order for him to draw closer to me, but it always ended in an argument or him being completely clueless about what was happening. During our semester break, I suggested we take a break because he's always busy and it would be best if we stopped talking for a few weeks. We had a big fallout about it and we didn't speak for a week. (I got exactly what I wanted, but it felt like shit.) I tried calling him and even went to his res to apologize. We eventually fixed things, but it was never the same again.

In July, someone from my gap year messaged me (let's call him H) and he was more present. We had conversation after conversation, something I didn't have with my boyfriend over the phone. We connected on such an intimate level that I felt guilty. Plus, H didn't take hours to respond. I felt bad for betraying my boyfriend like that, so I thought if I ignored J for a few hours he would notice, but he didn't, and that pissed me off.

I eventually broke up with J because I felt like a decoration in his life and nothing more. He just accepted it like that, and that made me even more mad because I wanted him to want me.

Then, a few weeks later, H asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no. I just felt that getting into a new relationship would mess up my mental health and possibly hurt H because I still had feelings for J. H pressured me so much on the matter that I just blocked him out of my life.

I asked J if I could see him in person to apologize for what I did. He said he would tell me when he's off, but two weeks passed. I eventually told J everything over the phone: how he made me feel, how I wanted more and got what I wanted from someone else, and that I let go of H. He said that was a conversation we should have in person. Now it feels as if I'm just a blob.

NB. I used ai for grammar.

Welp, I finally did it. As much as it pains me, I had to sell my LEGO sets at B&M the other day.
They were just sitting at my friend’s place collecting dust until I was able to get an apartment, and I don’t see that coming to fruition any time soon. 🤷

To preface, I’m not looking for any sympathy, I’m just trying to post this around in hopes that someone in my situation sees this and doesn’t make the same mistake I did out of desperation.

I’m 25 and homeless at the moment, working at the Dollar store and trying to save up some money for an apartment, so my friend let me keep my One Piece and Star Wars sets at his. In the meantime I’ve been couch surfing or just sleeping in the park bathroom so I’m able to be close enough to work. My welcome had worn out with my friend and his mother, and pretty much everyone else I know either don’t have an extra couch, live too far of a commute, or need rent money I don’t have.

So, that brings us to the other day. I had work the next morning, it was way too cold to walk 2 hours, and I hadn’t showered (which I desperately needed lol) and so I weighed my options. My friend picked me up and took me to B&M to sell the sets I had, plus 12lbs of bulk, mostly from City and Sonic. (Going Merry, Arlong Park, and Windmill Village from One Piece, and the Sith Infiltrator, 2 Windu Fighter tanks (one sealed) the AT-TE and the playscale Jango Slave I from SW) so that I could have enough money to get a hotel room for the night and to uber to work the next day.

I started speaking to the owner about my situation after he gave me an offer of $175, and I asked him if there was anything else he could do, to which he added an extra $5 to what he gave me, adding that “You’re the second person today I’ve given more money than what their collection was worth.” I thanked him profusely, paid my friend some gas money, and proceeded to get dropped off at the Motel 6. Then, it started to hit me.

Over the past 2-3 years, I spent $500 on those sets, not even counting the bulk bins (the second pic is a screenshot of the LEGO Builder app so you can get an idea of what sets the pieces came from) and I’m just… I don’t know, I regret letting go of them, but after it took him 3 hours of sorting through everything and making my friend wait with me, I just ripped the bandaid off. Didn’t want it to be for nothing.

Thing is, I’m starting to feel taken advantage of because of my desperation. I thought being an older gentleman in the hobby he would maybe have some understanding. I understand he’s trying to run a business with overhead, but I’m already back in the same position I started in, a week away from payday, and in all honesty…I want nothing more than to just sit here at the library and play with my bricks 😭 The prices he listed for some of them really hurts… $110 for a used ATTE? You gave me $40…

What do y’all think? Is the $180 really not that bad in retrospect considering my situation, did he take advantage of me needing money? Idk, I guess I’m just trying to feel better about this whole thing.
My DMs are open if anyone has any advice or words of encouragement 🖤

This is on a job application but and im not sure what to do ive got multiple answers just due to technicality.

When I was 10 years old I made a friend in our society we were in the same tuition. As we were too young I was too shy and introvert and she was the opposite. Years passed and after 5 years our bond was stronger, we started calling each other best friends but I was still same shy and introvert. I was completely into her but never told her but we were completely enjoyed all moments with each other. After a year she found a guy who stays in the same society and they started dating each other. They used to eye contact, hug each other. This made me feel too bad and hurt. But she was the same with me our bond was the same. But we all three were staying at the same place I always would have got hurt watching them. So one day out of jealousy I texted my 4th friend which also stayed in our society that she proposed me and also she is with this person because he is rich. While I wrote this out of anger my best friend got this message as someone sent her the screenshot. She called me and shown me all of this message and I lied that my account was hacked and all. She said you backbitched me I never thought that you will be like this. She blocked me everywhere. After few months I found that she went abroad for studies and she didn’t even told me. I cried. This was in 2020 when I was 20 years old. Whenever my 3rd friend meets I see him talking with her and it hurts me again and again. She comes here once a year and they both talk on chat till late night and also I tried texting her. She said I don’t have any hard feelings for you and said me to be happy with whatever I’m doing. But I don’t want to lose her. I’m 26 today never dated anyone but I want her in my life again.

Hi, I’m 22f and my life revolves around my boyfriend pretty much. It’s probably a toxic relationship. My friends don’t like being around me and he makes me a different person than I am without him. I love the guy to death so I really don’t want to break up. I smoke weed all the time and it makes me tired and I sleep all day. I don’t like doing anything unless it involves my boyfriend. I broke up with him for a week and it was like I was newborn. I don’t know how to get out of this mess I made. I used to not be so upset about life and hateful but now all I am is angry and anxious. Everyone says it’s the weed and my boyfriend and I think it’s probably true with how much I obsess over him. I think even if the relationship was healthy my clingy behavior is really bad like I freak out about the minutes he’s late to see me because it means less time with him. I barely do my school work that I pay to attend and I have a shopping addiction bc I’m insecure about myself. My whole life is him and I don’t know how to be me and make friends. What do I do?

I say the relationship is toxic because there’s a lot of fighting and he won’t let me be friends with one of my friends and he’s super controlling. He doesn’t understand me and calls me crazy whenever I tell him he’s hurt my feelings. Like he will be late and I will tell him that it isn’t right to tell me he’s almost ready to pick me up and then not communicate with me for 30 minutes because he decided to clean up around the house. (Maybe that’s crazy of me to be upset but I was waiting and he knows I need to eat after taking my meds. I ate already but i was getting sick again and we were supposed to go to lunch) he told me to shut up when I pointed out how he made me feel.

I feel so down all the time and I lay around feeling sorry for myself

My boyfriend says I’m just lazy

This is super embarrassing so I’m gonna delete it after a while I just am so tired of literally having this weight on my shoulders all day everyday. How do I stop hating my life and start being better?

Edit: I know it’s silly to ask. I just am because he tells me I’m the problem and maybe shouldn’t be so high maintenance..

for context, we've been together for 8 months (ish) and for the past couple months I have been SO unhappy and miserable. There is nothing wrong with him, he's a great guy. I just don't think we are compatible anymore and I am really bad at faking feelings that aren't there.

This trip has been planned for roughly 3 months now and he didn't buy a refundable ticket, despite me telling him it would be smart. My family tells me I need to stick it out as to not waste his money and still have him come here, but I don't know how im expected to fake everything while he's here for a week. Any advice is appreciated.

Long story short, the first two years of our relationship were amazing. We had so many hopes, dreams, and plans for the future together. We genuinely thought we’d be together for a long time.
Somewhere along the way, though, we both ended up in a really bad place mentally. We started arguing over the smallest things, and it became a cycle that went on for a long time. Eventually, we both got therapy and started trying to work on ourselves.
I started therapy a couple of months ago, but unfortunately, for her, it seems like it was too late. I broke her trust, and over time she stopped feeling the same connection with me.

Yesterday, she broke up with me. She told me that she still loves me, but she doesn’t feel the same anymore and doesn’t trust me like she used to. She said that part of her wanted to leave, while another part didn’t want to break up.
She also told me that there might be a chance for us to get back together in the future, but not right now.

I really want her back. I know I can’t force her to come back, and I don’t want to pressure her. I’ve started therapy and genuinely want to work on myself, not just to get her back, but because I know I need to change.

But I’m honestly lost right now. I don’t know whether I should completely give her space, stay in contact, or try to show her that I’m changing. I’m scared that if I give her too much space, she’ll move on, but I also don’t want to push her further away.

What should I** **ddo? Has anyone been in a situation where an ex said there might be a chance in the future, and actually managed to rebuild the relationship? What did you do during that time?

So js some background info on me. I'm 18M heterosexual. I've never had a single relationship ever.
I've had one date and it was okay. I'm a virgin as well, (not that it matters). I'm actively looking for a girlfriend. I mainly seek white and brown girls. I don't mean to be racist at all, so I say this with respect to all girls who come from African and Asian descent, yall are just as pretty and nice but I'm really sorry yall are js not my type.

Anyways, I'm in college for hvac gas licence. (If anyone here knows ts, I'm done my g3 and doing my g2 rn.) I'm in coop with a big company. (For privacy reasons I won't say which one) and there's this girl there from my college. (We've never spoken in college more than once in 3 months) and now all of a sudden, me and her are chatting up different things everyday.

Today, she asked for my instagram. And I gave it. I assumed it was just as friends because I don't have any other contact with her. But she also kept touching me in polite ways that I'm trying to understand. Like she was touching my arm and tapping my shoulder while we were talking and it's not that I felt uncomfortable or anything, but im wondering if these are early signs that she might be attracted to me or she has a crush on me.

The only thing is, she's Asian so she's not my type like I stated and I'm concerned if I should say anything or let this pan out however and what I could say to her should this topic arise between us. Again, I'm not trying to be an asshole, I just need some help. Please help, thx guys.

this is stupid but i dunno lol

last week this cute guy popped up in my suggested list on facebook (a few mutual friends, from the same community) & in a moment of boldness i friend requested him. he accepted within like 2 minutes but i fell asleep lol

i was at an event the following night and was eyeing a cute guy. it happened to be him but i didn’t fully realize it until after the fact 😭

i got too busy between moving & work so it’s been about a week. i’ve thought here and there about sending him a message but i’m not sure if it’d be weird or if i’m overthinking.

due to some major life changes and stress, i’m just looking for something fun, even just a few flirty texts. i just get in my head because my business is attached to my name (but who’s isn’t really?) and this “big” city is actually very small, so i wouldn’t want to make things awkward… but what’s one message really going to do? (but alas, i have said those same words before and paid the price lol)

it wouldn’t be my first time messaging/asking out a guy myself, but i’ve gained a lot of experience since the last time and… it’s hard for me to not think of all the worst case scenarios 😩 already i’m like, damn, why the hell did i add him on facebook instead of instagram LOL

so, what do i do? just go for it? how do i let myself be flirty and just… live?

thanks 🙏🏻

So, last Saturday i went for drinks with two friends of mine and one dude that one of my friends talks to joined with two of his friends. With one of them, we kinda hit it off. The vibes were 10/10, but we didn't exchange Instagram. So, how weird would it be if i followed him? My friend did text me his instagram, since she found it through the dude's insta. It may not be a big deal, but i think it's weird since we don't have any mutuals and i guess if he wanted to keep in touch, he would?

There is this friend (F20) that we grew close really fast, we have been friends for 2 years (which for me that is a young friendship).

A couple weeks ago, a misunderstanding happened in which I was in the wrong and apologized for it.

The thing is, before knowing that I accidentally hurt her, I was left in the dark for four days (even though I had asked her if everything was okay. She lied saying it was). I really value good communication and being blunt with the truth, things that I told her many times.

When we met again in class I sensed that something was wrong. It was then that I apologized and promised I would do my best to not do it again.

She asked for some space and I respected her wishes, but it has been three weeks since then and our friendship is in a weird state.

Even though I hurt her, me and another friend, that I told about the situation, think that it is too big of a reaction for a situation that was just a misunderstanding. I thought she had changed some things in a project and told my colleagues it was her, but I had actually written that (stupid of me for not paying attention on what I was writing).

So, in the end we are in this weird state of talking/not talking and I just have a huge vibe that this friendship is not gonna last (since she preferred to leave me in the dark instead communicating her feelings) and that she is hopping that I will end it. What should I do? Does anyone have any advice?

Addition for context We are doing a group project together and the language we all speak is not my mother tongue so my grammar and writing is not the best. I asked her to check my work for me which she did, she had said that she wrote two sentences and corrected mine. So words I didn't recognize as I have written them but I didn't care because I had my phrases correct many times and it wasn't important to me. When my other colleagues asked who had written I said that I had and that I had asked her to check my work so it had her "stemp of approval" but the grammar was still not the best. In the end she hadn't changed the grammar just the spelling/orthography of my sentences. She believes that I lied to them and to her, but I think it was just a misunderstanding and miscommunication

I’m 21F, and I’ve noticed that I really enjoy texting older men online, especially when they objectify me or start mentioning their wives. I know they probably don’t genuinely care about me, but I still enjoy the attention and how wanted it makes me feel. Sometimes I feel guilty about it, and other times I don’t care at all. I genuinely don’t understand why I’m like this or what to do about it!

Basically, my partner and I are in a good position right now however, I kind of have this grudge over some things we've done. We've both made mistakes 100% in apologized and moved on, but I have some resentment and anger from what he said to me. It's tough because I'm unattractive person and I'm literally a model and he's being very lustful in the relationship. He's made mistakes like mention his ex hookups to me saying that they were better in arguments to hurt me, commenting on women's boobs even if they're just a bigger person he says something like why doesn't she go get surgery and fix them, and liking only fans girls posts way back like three years ago I know it's been a while. Some of this has happened a year ago, but even today when we were changing a picture of Kylie, Jenner came up in Victoria's Secret and he's like "damn didn't know her boobs r so big" and I'm like oh yea obv I'm a model I know a lot about Victoria secret and I'm like she's an influencer I wish the models who were original wore this, and he's like she's so good looking damn her boobs r huge. And I'm like I don't know if it's just like class or dignity for me, but I just can't stand this like cheap talk and coming from the past of his. I just don't know how to approach this cause I'm getting more and more unattracted towards this behaviour am I overreacting and how can I make this conversation nice and easy but making him realize that he should be humiliated but also step up to still help rebuild my trust if he wants to.

So for context weve been dating for like 2 days and its his first time dating a guy, also hes avoidant and im not really sure what to do he hasnt been answering any of my calls or texts since yesterday morning