r/casualiama • u/BallKey7607 • 2h ago
I (30m) used to be someone who only offered solutions when comforting people and thought anything else was pointless. Now I’m the opposite, and can even feel upset when people do that with me. AMA.
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I used to think anything other than solutions were kind of stupid/pointless and that was the only way I'd try to help if someone was upset. Since then, I have completely flipped and gone the other way to the point that if people now only offer me solutions in the same way that I used to I now sometimes feel upset.