So I am married with kids . I am a very introverted person and I love how my life is. I do 8-5 work , love spending my time with my family and kids.
And I have this unmarried sister and the way we see the world is very different. And that is fine.
She is an outgoing, fun aunty to my kids. She dates many men and enjoys her child-free life. Sometimes she criticizes my life choices. And recently I have noticed that she kind of plans her retirement plan, making me and my kids her caregivers. And when she dates those men she expects them to fully spoil her financially and that’s ok . But for me, I can’t do that to my husband because we both do jobs and because we are a family,normally we handle our household stuff together financially. And the frustrating part is she expects my husband to pay for her stuff also, do the same.So, what I’m saying is, if you plan to stay single and child-free, you need to decide how you’re going to manage in old age, especially when you can no longer rely on financial support from men, rather than expecting your nieces and nephews to take care of you.

I used to use black gel pens all the time because they were waterproof, but since they changed the formula, they aren't as waterproof as they used to be.

Sri Lankan So called ISP's cant f#ing route a OTP from overseas, this is the second time i got blocked once from Vercel and then LinkedIn, wtf

I’ve noticed some shops advertising different prices for physical cash and bank transfers, sometimes with a pretty big gap. A few examples from the screenshots:

• Cash: Rs. 629,000 / Bank deposit: Rs. 638,500
• Cash: Rs. 529,000 / Bank transfer: Rs. 545,000
• Cash: Rs. 86,500 / Bank transfer: Rs. 91,300

To be clear, I’m not talking about the usual 3% card surcharge. These are bank transfers or deposits directly into the seller’s account.

What actually explains this difference? Are there fees or other costs for the seller that I’m missing, or is it about preferring cash because it’s easier to keep sales off the books?

I’m not saying a price difference alone proves tax evasion, but it does make me wonder. Anyone working in retail, banking or accounting able to explain?

I saw this in Colombo today. It was un mistakably blue. It wasn’t the lighting or the angle or the colour of the vehicle behind. I’ve seen the blue lettering on a few other luxury SUVs like prados and also on a handful of police vehicles but not all of them. Is it a government car? Doesn’t look like a diplomatic one either because the sticker was missing. Normally our license plate lettering is in black. The vehicle was a CRV hybrid which was also odd because this version of the CRV was never imported to SL as a hybrid

I apologize for the bad picture. I have ai removed myself from the side mirror in case you noticed some squiggly stuff there

Any1 want these books, I live in cmb, can put pick me flash if you want or courier if your far

I'm planning on buying roughly $360 earphones from Linsoul(to be specific). They offer DHL Express shipping. They offered to mark the price lower in the customs forms but will that make a difference? Will I still end up paying a alot since it is DHL(I've seen complaints on this sub before). What have your experiences been in ordering from online stores?

Anyone know where I can buy these squishy especially NeeDoh-style sensory squishies, soft stretchy toys in Colombo? 😊 They’re really trending with kids in Australia, and I’d love to hunt some down for my 8-year-old while we’re travelling in Sri Lanka. Any shop recommendations would be appreciated! 🇱🇰🧸

um looking for few books including " The Forex Mindset, Trading in the Zone, Atomic Habits, Rich dad Poor dad" to order from an online book shop in sri lanka. um currently living in Maldives. Can anyone recommend any Facebook, Instagram page or online book shop that do overseas delivery

PS: The reason um trying to order from SL is, the prices here in Maldives are way too high. it like more than double of the price in sri Lanka

Hey fellas

Trynna get something thats not available in SL (supplement pills). Found it with decent pricing on Ubuy.com.lk

It looks like a global dropshipping/freight forwarding site and it looks pretty legit, however I dont really know anyone who has purchased off of it so I have no clue whether it works or if its legit or if i owuld have to pay tax on top as well?

Thanks in advance!

I tried to activate it by sending MCA to 7676 but it didn't activated. My account had Rs. 70 and almost every rupee had being deducted but still the service isn't on. Is I'm doing something wrong or something?

How much can an Uber driver who owns a car earn without going full time. Say less than 30hrs a week?

Why do private bus designs have pictures of women in them? It's not as common as a few years back but why use women?

According to research, it's to make the bus pretty. But if so, why not use something like flowers and butterflies and birds(since Sri Lanka is still very traditional on beauty stereotypes)?

Why use a women instead of objects? And what's the purpose of such a design? Who's the audience for it?

And if it is due to personal preference, why is it a personal preference? It's not like women are the only designs in bus design culture. Even random sceneries are used... So why use a woman?

Could anyone help me with this please?

I’m planning to buy a Casio AE-1200WHD-1AVDF (Casio Royale) and found a store called i3 Luxury at Majestic City, Colombo. However, I’m not sure whether the store is trustworthy or whether they sell genuine Casio watches.

I’m also a little worried that the price might increase with the next shipment from Blink International or Gearz.lk, so I’m considering buying from this store instead of waiting. Has anyone purchased a watch from i3 Luxury before? Are their Casio watches authentic, and do they provide a proper warranty? Also, do you think I should buy from this store or wait for the next shipment from Blink International or Gearz.lk?

I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences before making my purchase. Thanks in advance!

I'm planning on buying some items off Amazon india, and I found this website Goknock.lk they purchase the product in India and have it shipped to sri lanka (proxy buying). Has anyone had any experience with them? Are they reliable?

Hi everyone, I'm a beginner at baking and looking for a short-term course or workshop in Colombo. I just want to learn a few simple baked goods like cupcakes and soft buns for personal enjoyment. Any suggestion please

Hello, I'm a person who has loved programming and stuff related to the tech field since I was little. I'm currently doing my A/L in Maths stream after getting 9As for O/L.

I have heard a lot of people say that software engineering is dead and no one can find jobs. Is this true? This field is what I loved since when I was little to a point that I self learned python and developed basic applications with UI. So I want to know is the job market really that bad as people say it is to the point that even passionate and talented people can't find work???

I want to hear all of your thoughts. If you have any advice for me please do share.

Hey everyone!
I’m planning my first solo trip to Sri Lanka from November 11 to 19, flying in and out of Colombo , from India. I’m looking for a relaxed, authentic solo-travel experience — beautiful beaches, swimming, surfing, snorkeling, scuba diving, meeting fellow travelers, and discovering places that aren’t overly touristy.
I’m not trying to rush through every attraction. I’d rather spend time in a few beautiful places, enjoy the ocean, meet interesting people, and go with the flow.
My tentative itinerary
● Nov 11: Arrive in Colombo around 5:15 PM and stay near Negombo/Colombo.
● Nov 12: Travel down to the south coast and settle into Weligama.
● Nov 13: Explore Galle and Unawatuna.
● Nov 14: Visit Kanneliya Rainforest for an easy guided forest/waterfall trek.
● Nov 15: Explore Ahangama and Midigama, possibly try surfing.
● Nov 16: Spend time around Mirissa and explore the surrounding coastline.
● Nov 17: Keep the day flexible for beaches, sea activities, or a hidden gem I discover along the way.
● Nov 18: Head back towards Negombo and spend the night near the airport.
● Nov 19: Fly back to Chennai around 1:30 PM.
I’m considering renting a scooter or motorbike to explore the coast, subject to the required licence/permit and local rules.
I’d love your recommendations!
1. Hidden gems: What are some beautiful, lesser-known beaches, coves, viewpoints, villages, natural swimming spots, or local places around the south coast that are worth visiting?
2. Best hostels for solo travelers: Which hostels would you recommend in Weligama, Ahangama, Midigama, Mirissa, or Unawatuna? I’d love somewhere social where it’s easy to meet people, join spontaneous plans, go out for food, or find travel buddies — but not a party hostel every single night.
3. Snorkeling and scuba diving: Where are the best places along this route for snorkeling or scuba diving? I’m especially interested in clear water, marine life, and a good beginner-friendly scuba experience. Is November a good time for these activities on the south coast, or would you recommend a different location?
4. Surfing and other sea activities: I’m interested in trying surfing, kayaking, freediving, or anything else fun on or in the water. Which places are best for beginners, and are there any activities or local operators you’d genuinely recommend?
5. Itinerary feedback: Does this route make sense for a chill solo beach-vibe trip, or am I moving around too much? Would you change the number of nights in any place, skip somewhere, or add a destination? I’m also wondering whether Kanneliya Rainforest is worth the detour or if there’s a better nature experience nearby.
6. November weather: What should I realistically expect on the south coast during these dates? I know the weather can be unpredictable, so I’d appreciate advice on beaches, snorkeling, and surfing conditions around mid-November.
7. Local experiences: Any favourite cafés, small local restaurants, sunset spots, beach bonfires, community activities, or places where solo travelers naturally end up meeting people?
I’m happy to hear recommendations beyond my itinerary, as long as they make sense for these dates and don’t turn the trip into a hectic checklist. I’d also appreciate tips for finding halal food along the route.
If you’ve travelled solo in Sri Lanka or live there, what would you do differently if you had these 8 nights?
Thanks a lot! Really looking forward to experiencing Sri Lanka. 🌴🌊

Hey everyone. I guess I'm starting college soon. But I have no idea how relationships, intimacy and other things work here in Sri Lanka. I guess intimacy outside marriage is taboo here. am i right? So for those who are ahead in life, how does everything work?

Hi everyone, I don’t reside in Sri Lanka at the moment and my mother recently received a letter stating that I had failed to file return of income for year 2024/2025 with a deadline of Nov 30. Where can I find the PIN cause it seems like I already have a TIN (referred in the letter).

Any advice on how this whole thing works and what I’d need to do to be able to log into the portal?
Physically visiting an office is a no- go as I reside abroad.

TIA!

or am i delusional (like always)?

Please recommend me a doctor in kandy for adhd?

I’ve been a loyal Chello customer for a while now, but the fresh milk I bought recently was spoilt on two separate occasions. I had to throw both bottles away. Why is the milk going sour so fast?