r/PersonalFinanceCanada • u/Three_Sided_Hexagon • 5h ago
Housing 900k mortgage 120k HHI, do I sell?
Hey everyone,
I purchased my home a few years ago and was in much better financial standing. My HHI was around 210k. My wife lost her job around a year ago and has been suffering from major depression and hasn't been able to work. She hasn't been able to qualify for disability so everything financial has fallen on my lap. I am working 60-hour weeks while trying to care for my wife, and I can not see a way out.
Our home is worth around 750k, and we have basically no assets of value. We love our neighbourhood and would like to stay. The more I run the numbers, the more I don't see how bankruptcy can be avoided. My wife is in a fragile state, and I don't know how to tell her we have to leave.
Any help is appreciated.
Edit: Thanks for all the responses. I sat down with my beautiful wife, and we've decided she needs to be closer to family in BC. With 150k of negative equity on the house and close to 50k in consumer debt, I think bankruptcy is our only way out. We have cut back on all purchases so much, and it's not sustainable. I'm paying $6500/month in home related expenses and taking home around $7,300. If anyone has any information on bankruptcy in Ontario, please leave a comment.