r/AdultGamers • • Sep 17 '26

Mod Announcement Posting Guidelines and Self Promotion

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Good morning gamers!

We've been dealing with increased aggression from redditors due to post removals and misunderstanding the flagged system.

All "looking for" posts must have your age, platform(s) you play on and games you're playing (not genres). We also recommend adding your timezone. Failure to include these details will result in your post being removed.

If your engagement indicates you're looking for something other than friends, you will be immediately banned.

Like other "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Coordinating with others for games that require you to squad up is fine. What we don't allow is recruiting for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community/Twitch or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc). This includes trying to promote your adult content.

Your post/comment being flagged doesn't mean its going to be removed. Automod is set up to flag certain terms and we manually review it.

This is a community for adults, and your behaviour should match that. We will not tolerate harassment or aggression.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers • • 9d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers • • 1h ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT +3] [37M] [PC/PS5] Looking for long-term gamer friends — let's share our gaming experiences!

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Hey everyone! :)

I'm 37M, based in Turkey (GMT+3) , and looking to meet some like-minded people and hopefully make a few genuine, long-term friends through gaming.

I'm not really looking for people to play one specific game with for a couple of sessions and then never talk to again. I'd much rather get to know someone over time, try different games together, and have someone to share my gaming experiences with.

A little about me and the games I enjoy

I've been a gamer for pretty much my entire life, and gaming has always been one of my main hobbies. I play on both PC and PS5, and I've built up a pretty extensive game library on both platforms over the years.

I'm mostly into single-player games, RPGs, strategy, survival, exploration, and games with interesting stories or worlds to get lost in.

Some of my favorites include Gothic, Mass Effect, Fallout, RimWorld, Subnautica, Satisfactory, Hades, Final Fantasy, GTA, Pokemon, XCOM, Football Manager... I enjoy a good mix of genres, especially games that give you interesting systems to explore, meaningful progression, or a world you can really get immersed in.

Games we could play together

I'm also up for co-op and multiplayer games! Some examples are:

  • Baldur's Gate 3
  • Enshrouded
  • Valheim
  • RuneScape: Dragonwilds
  • SnowRunner
  • Rematch
  • EA FC 27

These are just examples, though. With my library being pretty extensive, there's a good chance I have other games we could try too. And I'm always open to discovering something new!

What I'd love to do together

  • Play co-op games and work toward shared goals.
  • Stream single-player games to each other on Discord. I'd genuinely love to watch someone experience a game for the first time, especially one that I love. I could also show you some of my favorite games or share a game from my library that you've been curious about.
  • Watch movies or shows together while hanging out in voice chat.
  • Share recommendations, talk about whatever we're playing, or just hang out in voice chat while doing our own thing.

I also stream sometimes, but I'm not looking for an audience. Honestly, sharing a game with one person can be just as enjoyable to me as streaming it to a crowd. Sometimes it's the shared experience that makes a game even more memorable.

Ideally, I'd love to find people who are interested in building a friendship that lasts beyond any particular game. We might play one thing today and something completely different next week. And sometimes we might not even play anything at all.

I'm a laid-back, nerdy homebody, and I enjoy getting to know people through conversations and shared interests. There's no pressure to be online every day or to have exactly the same taste in games. I'd just like to meet people who genuinely want to hang out and get to know each other over time.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself and what you've been playing lately. :)


r/AdultGamers • • 3h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking for more friends 27M

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Hey all my name is BigZesty5903. I play primarily on Xbox and I am looking for people to play games with. I’m looking for people to play with that won’t bail after a day or so. I just got back into playing Call of Duty with MW4 and am loving multiplayer. I am looking for people to play DMZ with. I also play other games like Fallout 76, Diablo 4 and GTA Online when I can get a crew. I’m just looking to make more friends. HMU on there or pm me on here!


r/AdultGamers • • 6h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29M NA PC gamer

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Looking for more people to game with after 7pm est and open weekends from sim racing to shooters to survival let's game


r/AdultGamers • • 14h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking for a fellow lvl partner on release day m39

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Hey everyone i am looking for a lvl partner on release day. I plan on starting 3 am cet. Located in germany. I have a holiday the following week.

Short info to me: m 39 started playing wow with SoM because of friends. Didn't have fun and got ganked a lot. Loved the World tho. Tried again when Stitches released got my first 60 there. Tried Sod that was also not for me. Hc Anniversary release i went hard and got my 2nd 60 ever. Now I will try again. I am no speedrunner but i can play a lot.

I plan on playing priest so any class is welcome to join me and maybe even all the way to 60?

Playing pvp ally


r/AdultGamers • • 9h ago

Discussion What are you playing Wednesdays?

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Tell us what you've been playing!

What are your thoughts on it so far? Would you recommend it to others?

You might even finds others to game with here!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Anyone for palworld 37 m

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I know I'm late to the game here, but it just recently sucked me in!

Hello, Im a 37 year old married dude with kids. So priorities are family first gaming later. That being said I usually play in the evening and some on the weekends if we aren't busy

I am super new to the game (and PC gaming in general). But I can definitely see how it would be much more fun with someone else. Problem is I know no one who plays it.

I will definitely talk on mic, not sure if that's a thing in game or through discord. I can be a bit quiet until I get to know someone. I am in EST time zone. If you think your up for the challenge of starting a world with a newb like me let me know!


r/AdultGamers • • 23h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 42m from texas. Looking for xbox fellow gamers.

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Hey yall. Call me jerms. Old gamer been doing lots soloing on games. Know how its goes. Team up with people and they leave. I play just about anything. Sarcasm and dark humor i have when playing wit a mic on. But mostly play rpgs, fortnight, Skyrim, fallout, those kill some time. along with watching animes. Im down to play any games. If you play PC let me know a good gaming set up that wont break the bank


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking For Gamers (35m)

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Hey all 35 married male IT professional/gamer! Im a dad so I dont have many gamer friends anymore. Specifically im looking for chill People to play Star Citizen with. Im already part of an org but due to timezones im not always able to play with all of them. I was hoping to find a similarity shy space adventurer to help crew up in the verse and play when the timezones are too distant.

Im in eastern timezone and would prefer someone in that location, or within an hour or two. I play from 7pm est till about 10pm est during the week.

You dont have to just play SC (i play a VAST range of titles) but it would help since thats what im currently playing.

Feel free to DM and we'll see what comes! o7


r/AdultGamers • • 22h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M26 in UK play PC!

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Hey, I play marvel rivals and overwatch currently, I also have deadlock, warframe, minecraft, and co-op games.

I dont like playing games alone so I need a friend/buddy to play with! Please be 25+ and be around my timezone. I like to vc and gaming. HMUUU


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32M EST LF wow/wow forever friends that don’t vanish after a day.

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Hey everyone!
I’m looking for some friends to adventure and cause chaos with that will stick around. I’ve talked to a few people from here but a lot of them just kind of fade out after a while unfortunately 🙁

I want some friends that are a bit more consistent ya know? Not necessarily with playing but just talking. Just some solid buddies that don’t just talk for a day and then poof 💨 .
You got your butt kicked in wow? I wanna know to laugh at you! You just did something embarrassing at work? I wanna know to comfort you and then make fun of you! And I expect the same treatment in return :p

I have a very dark and dry sense of humor and have been told I’m a fcking hoot 🦉

I’m thinking of going alliance and on an RP/pvp realm/setting to get a good combo of what is being offered! If you think we’ll get along, tell me about yourself!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M PS5 EST Looking for a duo

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Just looking for a duo that’s enjoyable and has the potential to become something permanent. Mostly play cross platform games, used to people being on other platforms. My list is a little weird right now, but I’m hoping to get back into more eventually. (Ignore my username here, I used to be a Nic cage main on dbd but that was years ago)

\-Peak: this is my main focus right now, an absolute must(just started though so I’m very new, don’t want to be carried so other new players would be ideal)
\-Outlast trials: almost always down for this
\-Sea of Thieves: I like it a lot, very time consuming though
\-Helldivers 2: love this one but have always played solo
\-Marvel Rivals: I play it but prefer the rest on this list, more of a back up if I get bored one day

Now for the games I can play but I’m not as focused on:
\-Dead by daylight: used to be very into this, sad they nerfed my build and took a break
\-Hell Let Loose Vietnam: been focused on spooky seasonal stuff in other games, haven’t had room to download this
\-Fallout 76: not cross platform, not bad thougy
\-Grounded: open to it, it’s grindy so I’d prefer to start with other games
\-GTA v: another game that isn’t crossplatform
\-7 Days to Die: even more grindy than rest, big commitment
\-Baldurs Gate 3: biggest commitment of them all, I just started my first playthrough
And many more I own, these are just what I’m most into.

Usually free around 5pm est to 8:30pm weekdays, then until like midnight on weekends.

Don’t take it personally if we don’t click, that’s just how it goes sometimes. I’m easy going, look out for my teammates and try to enjoy games rather than get too competitive. I am competitive but more about getting better rather than with my teammates. I enjoy training new players in games I’m good at and am not rude about it. I definitely suck at some and would love to learn more. I honestly get into anything but my main games have always been horror games and shooters. Lately I’ve turned more towards things like Peak and sea of thieves. I also love stuff like stardew valley, simulators, and even playing single player games alongside other people to enjoy the story together.

Let’s see what happens(if we get along well, I’ll be similarly verbose). My only rule is that you’re honest about yourself. Telling me what you think I want to hear will end that sooner rather than later. If you got this far, thanks for taking the time to read it all and have a good one.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M - Looking for Friends to Game With!

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Heyo!

My name is Michael and I am a lonely gamer dude looking for friends to hang out with! I'm typically a console (Xbox) gamer but I will play on PC as well!

A little about me: I'm a filthy Midwesterner (St Louis born and bred) who loves RPG games most (Fallout is my all-time favorite series). I also play my fair share of multiplayer games like 76, Marvel Rivals, Gears, Halo, Valheim, the list goes on...

Feel free to hit me up if you want to game or even just chat! My tag is NoBigDillo (both on Xbox and Discord), or even just DM me here!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 34F/PS5/AST - send memes and play marvel rivals with me?

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Hi! I’m at that age where a lot of my friends are no longer gaming or their 9-5 gets in the way while I work from home so I’m just by myself a lot of the time.. I’d really like someone to duo games with and give myself some kind of social interaction lol

I’m only just getting into more competitive/multiplayer stuff this past year.. I’ve always been a solo gamer so I’m not that great but if you’re patient and willing to help me learn, or just want to casually vibe and laugh while I suck then please message me!

I’m currently playing a lot of Rivals but Ill do Overwatch, Valorant, Warframe, Apex if asked but Rivals is my jam right now. I’m open to playing anything you suggest cause like I said, it’s kind of new to me.. I usually played games like Zelda, Elden Ring, Red Dead, God of War, Ghost of Tsushima so if there is anything with those vibes in multiplayer, I’m down.

I work from home 9-3 but I’ve gotten really good at multitasking so I’m pretty much available anytime and I have a terrible sleep schedule so it doesn’t really matter what time zone you are in.

Aside from gaming I play and teach guitar, do karate/kickboxing and love to read, watch sci-fi/fantasy movies.. I’m getting back into anime lately after a pretty long hiatus. I am also a single mom to an 8 year old girl.

It’s been a really rough year, gaming helps me escape reality for a little while.. I’m just tired of doing it alone in my office dungeon and would like a consistent friend. Thanks!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30 M PC

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Yoooo whats up everyone. Looking for some friends to play some games with. M or F it doesnt matter to me. I'm married and i work full time. My days off are Monday and Tuesday and thats when i game the most. I like playing friend slop like how to fish, peak, and gone fishing. Also love playing serious games too like elden ring, risk of rain 2, deadzone rogue, Remnant and Remnant 2 and a whole bunch of others. I'm open to other games as well if you have any suggestions. Feel free to DM me and from there we can vibe on discord or something. HMU!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 33/M/NA-EST - Guild Wars 2 and/or just general friends?

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Heya!

Getting back into gw2 and looking for some friends to run stuff and hang with. There's about a trillion things to do, and adhd has me hopping from one to the other, making very little progress on any of it lmao. Functionally a new player despite having many things unlocked, as I never really bothered to learn a rotation or anything when originally playing, so working on fixing that. Typically gravitate towards healers/supports in most games, so if you need someone to (attempt and fail) to keep you alive, I've got you. I typically avoid pvp like the plague, as I'm not really a competitive person at all, but looks like WvW has some things that I want, so I'll probably be suffering there at some point

Most other stuff I play is single player, aside from Destiny (although most likely won't be returning to that until the unvaulting) and WoW (although also won't really be playing that again for awhiiiile, as I got very burnt out and don't have a ton of interest in Forever), and typically just no-life things for awhile, so not really a game-hopper. But some other favorites off the top of my head are Disco Elysium, Signalis, Morrowind, BG3, Expedition 33, the Fear and Hunger games, Remedy's games, and Rain World. Deadlock also looks interesting (despite my general aversion to pvp), but also not looking to get into that for awhiiile, but more of a future option

Listen to a ton of music (have a last.fm to share if anyone still uses that platform), so always taking recommendations there, and watch a ton of movies (I've got that AMC movie subscription, so I'm constantly up at the theatre seeing pretty much anything in order to justify the subscription). I'll watch pretty much everything, but def have a love for horror. Last few movies to stick out that I saw was Camp Miasma, Digger, and You Can See Everything, and will most likely be going to see Wildwood next

I'm not reaaally looking for some massive discord server, and I don't usually love to hop right into VC (although if we're doing something that needs coordination, I'll happily do so. I just like to get to know people a little before just hanging out in VC. is just A Thing, yknow), and can be a little all over the place with convo. But if youre not some toxic asshole, im more than happy to play together, so do feel free to reach out!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M46/PC/Xbox/PS5

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Hey everyone, PST, I don’t have enough people to play with. I play a mix of everything but have been stuck on WARDOGS for the last 2 months. I have a mic. I am super chill, 420 friendly. Message and I’ll send you the info


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CST] 28M | PC | Looking for Long-Term Friends with Similar Interests 🎮

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Hey! I'm Vanns! 👋 I'm 28, married, and looking to make some genuine, long-term friends. My schedule can be a little all over the place since I work overnight shifts at a casino, but I'm always down to chat or hop on a game when I'm free!

A little about me: I enjoy listening to music, binge-watching TV shows, drawing, gaming, and creating content. I'm a bit weird and goofy sometimes, so if you've got a little tism in you too, we might get along just fine 😂

🎮 Some of the games I enjoy:

ARC Raiders

mw4

Fallout

Stardew Valley

Satisfactory

Graveyard Keeper

Fortnite

No Man's Sky

Schedule I

R.E.P.O.

Simulator games

And plenty of others!

I'm always willing to try new games, so don't be afraid to suggest something I've never played before!

I'm hoping to meet people who are down for more than just a one-time gaming session. Whether we're gaming together, chatting about random stuff, sharing memes, or just hanging out while doing our own thing, I'm all for it.

So, if we have some games or interests in common, feel free to reach out! Let's play something, chat, and hopefully build some lasting friendships. 😁


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M looking for long term gamer friends and casual friends

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I’m looking for genuine friends who can hold a conversation longer than a tiktok video. I play games like Dead by Daylight, Minecraft, Stardew Valley, plus a ridiculous amount of other games that I purchased and never touched. You don’t need to be amazing at games either. I’m here for vibes, not esports contracts. If your gameplay consists of panic, screaming, missing every shot, or accidentally setting the entire Minecraft house on fire, you’ll fit right in. Mainly looking for people who actually want real friendships instead of the classic “we should play again sometime” followed by disappearing forever like a mysterious side character. If you think we’d vibe, send me a message. Worst case scenario, we become lifelong enemies after losing one ranked game.

A little about me: I investigate conspiracies like it’s a part-time job, video games where I swear I’m better than my rank suggests, and anime that emotionally damages me in ways I keep coming back for. When I’m not doing that, I’m usually reading books I tell myself I’ll finish “this week,” planning travel like I’m rich and free-spirited (I am neither), or watching TV shows while claiming “just one episode” into a 6-hour binge.

If you’re going to message me, don’t start with “hey” or “how are you” unless you enjoy being left on read. Open with a random fact, tell me your favorite movie/video game, anything with personality. Dm me 🙂

Console: PC
Age: 31
TimeZone: North America East
Availability: Evenings and sometimes afternoons


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 60M/Mtn Time/WoW Forever

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*I made a post that looked like a recruiting post a couple days ago. Not my intent. Sorry to the mods.

I'm excited to play world of Warcraft forever. The beta was great.

So I hope to find some like-minded oldies who played back in the day, 22 years ago, and might like to play when forever comes out.

But my post did draw some interesting comments about people having some nostalgia but also seeing that their lives have moved on. I guess I like the nostalgia thing. And I have a little more time in my life to game than I used to. What do you think? Is it a conundrum for you? Is Blizzard doing the right thing or things? Is the toxicity potential very high? (Watching Asmongold and his gigantic Olympus guild has me wondering how people are going to handle things)


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT] 26M | UK/GMT | PS5 | Looking for mature gaming friends (MMOs, FPS, Co-op & More)

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Hey everyone!

I'm 26, based in London, UK, and getting back into gaming after a long break. I grew up playing on the PS3 and PS4, and I'm now making my return to PlayStation with a PS5 setup on the way.

I'm hoping to meet some mature, easygoing gaming friends, ideally around 25+, who enjoy good conversation, teamwork and having a laugh.

Games I'm interested in:

  • DC Universe Online (DCUO)
  • Final Fantasy XIV
  • Call of Duty / Warzone
  • Battlefield
  • GTA Online
  • Minecraft
  • EA Sports FC 27

I'm particularly interested in MMOs. I love character creation, progression, exploring worlds, unlocking abilities and developing characters over time. I'd really enjoy experiencing those kinds of games alongside someone with similar interests.

I'm also a big fan of competitive FPS games, but I don't take gaming so seriously that it stops being enjoyable.

Ultimately, I'd like to develop genuine, long-term gaming friendships rather than simply adding people to a friends list. I'm pretty laid-back, enjoy a good laugh and appreciate people who are respectful, communicative and don't bring unnecessary drama.

UK/EU time zones would be ideal, but I'm open to others if our schedules align.

If we share similar interests, feel free to drop me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you enjoy playing! PSN is ogblue_1

Cheers!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - GMT+1 32M from Poland is looking for people to play with!

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Howdy!
Many years ago there was a time when I attended LAN parties and I remember those fondly. Games are definitely meant to be played with other people. Sure, there are some single player pearls out there, but the true fun comes from sharing these moments with your friends!

My steam library consists of quite a lithany of games, so I'll just post what can be played together:

  1. 7 Days to Die. I haven't played that one in a while and I'm willing to give it another shot, but with another person.
  2. Across the Obelisk. A cool co-op card game, but it requires a lot of time for a single run.
  3. Age of Wonders 4. Great strategy game, but like the predecessor, requires a lot of time.
  4. Ark: Survival Evolved. Like no 1, definitely not playing solo anymore.
  5. Back 4 Blood. Just some quick fun every now and then.
  6. Baldur's Gate 3. I have another person willing to play with me, but we're trying to gather a full squad of 4 people. One of the best co-op games out there, can be played seriously, can just have tons of fun.
  7. Blood Bowl 2. A silly little game where we can bash our heads (literally and figuratively) trying to score touchdowns in Warhammer universe.
  8. Dead Space 3. Haven't played it in a while, never played it co-op. Willing to give it a go!
  9. Divinity Original Sin 2. Like BG3, though I played it many, many times before. Slightly less inclined.
  10. Helldivers 2. I'm on a hiatus, but with good company I could play it again.
  11. LotR: Return to Moria. I only scratched the surface, but like no 10, with good company, heck yeah.
  12. Magicka. It's been a while since I've touched it, but never played it in co-op. Fun game at times!
  13. Project Zomboid. Love and hate relationship with this game, but if somebody wants to, I can do it again.
  14. PUBG. I can probably play a few games, though I'm not big on pvp games. If you're fun to play with, though, I don't mind dying some more.
  15. Returnal. Ooooh, I love that game. I tried playing it co-op for some time, but never found anyone.
  16. Riftbreaker. Great game to just relax and shoot a lot of stuff.
  17. Sacred Gold. Anybody still plays it? I wouldn't mind going again!
  18. Slay the Spire 2. Especially with the ARAM mod for some fun chaos.
  19. Solasta: Crown of the Magister. Great for some D&D hunger.
  20. Total War: Warhammer. Though it is a massive time-sink and would need to be played over the course of several days, I love the game.

Besides games, I like lists. Can you tell? Yeah, you're a smart one. I also love science, astronomy, astrophysics and the philosophy of reality. Sometimes I'm a dreamer, sometimes really down to earth. I'm usually very talkative, but sometimes I like to be quiet and just focus on a game. Overall, I'm very chill and an owner of 2 beautiful cats and one majestic almost-three-legged dog. Can share pictures!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29M looking for people to play helldivers 2 with or others. [EST]

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Hello all, I’m 29m and live in the Midwest(est),Some of the things I like are horror, games, cooking, comics the outdoors, history and politics(leftist) and sports.

I play a lot of different games mainly single player or solo.My favorite game is Red dead 2 and fallout new Vegas.I love halo, gears of war, dead space, dead rising, last of us, Batman Arkham series and helldivers 2. I play on Xbox,ps5 and switch 2.

So if you want to play feel free to reach out.


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Teesside, UK gamers? 50M

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Hey everyone! Just turned 50 yesterday but you wouldn't think so. I'm just recovering from last night's party, and have a great circle of friends for hanging out and going to gigs, etc, but none of them are really gamers despite mostly being younger than me. I'm not really into online gaming (although not dead against the idea) so looking for people to just chat about games and if we click to maybe play in person, co-op stuff, etc. I live on Teesside in the North East of England but would also be happy to chat about games with anyone really.

I have a Steam Machine and XBox Series X and Steam Frame.

I mostly love narrative/detective/deduction games, but have more recently got into some JRPG stuff and got the Steam Frame so been playing a lot of VR stuff as well. I'm currently loving Promise Mascot Agency and Titanium Court. Hit me up!